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NOW TAKE THE EXPERIENCE DEEPER - BECOME A SO40 VIP
The SO40 Challenge will help you see what’s been shaping your dating life. The VIP Experience helps you work through what you discover.
Upgrade to VIP and get the tools, access, and conversations designed to turn five days of insight into real personal clarity.
With VIP, you’ll receive:
The SO40 PlaybookÂ
Go beyond watching the daily trainings with guided exercises, reflection questions, and practical tools that help you apply the Five Ps to your own dating life.
SO40 VIP Masterclass (Sunday at 11am PST/ 1pm CST/ 2pm EST - 90 Minutes)
Join us live for networking, great conversation, community, and an exclusive VIP Q&A with David Burrus where we can strategize around what you discovered during the challenge.
Instant Access to The 5 Stages of Relational Access (Mini-Course)
Gain instant access to the that teaches you how healthy connection should progress, when deeper access should be earned, and how to stop giving too much of yourself too soon. A4C: The 5 Stages of Relational Access will help you recognize the difference between attraction and actual relational readiness, so chemistry doesn’t convince you to accelerate a connection that hasn’t earned it.
You’ll learn how to pace emotional investment, establish appropriate boundaries, evaluate consistency, and allow trust to develop through evidence rather than potential. Instead of giving someone relationship-level access while you’re still discovering who they are, you’ll gain a practical framework for deciding who gets access, how much, and when.
Instant Access to The SO40 PlaybookÂ
Gain instant access to the SO40 Playbook and go beyond simply watching the daily trainings with guided exercises, reflection questions, and practical tools designed to help you apply each of the Five Ps directly to your own dating life. You’ll uncover the programming that shaped you, recognize patterns you may have been repeating, challenge perceptions influencing your choices, evaluate how you’re currently dating, and become more intentional about how you position yourself for the relationship you desire.
Instead of finishing the challenge with more information, you’ll walk away with greater self-awareness, practical next steps, and a personalized roadmap for dating differently.
A Reserved Seat In Our Next SO40 Masterclass
The SO40 Challenge helps you diagnose what’s been getting in the way, the patterns, assumptions, and blind spots shaping your dating life. On Sunday, we’ll take a deep dive in the VIP Experience to explore what you discovered, understand how it shows up in your relationships, and begin building a different way forward.
Join us live on Zoom for a 90-minute masterclass and Q&A with David Burrus. Bring your real questions and real situations. We’ll work through them together so you leave with practical clarity about your next steps. Come camera-ready, bring your brunch, and connect with other singles navigating dating over 40.
Sunday following the challenge · 9 a.m. PT / 11 a.m. CT / 12 p.m. ET
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You Don’t Have to Keep Dating Like This.
Dating over 40 can leave you exhausted by the apps, frustrated by inconsistency, guarded from disappointment, and questioning why the same patterns keep showing up with different people. You can be successful, self-aware, and accomplished, yet still feel completely uncertain about what to do differently when it comes to love.
That’s exactly why we created D40.
This experience is designed to replace confusion with clarity, frustration with understanding, and reactive dating with intentional choices. You’ll begin to understand what shaped you, recognize what you’ve been repeating, and gain practical tools to help you approach relationships differently.
And with D40 VIP, you don’t have to stop at awareness. You’ll have the frameworks, exercises, conversations, and community to help you turn what you discover into real change in how you choose, connect, and date.
You’ve spent enough time wondering what’s wrong with dating. It’s time to get clear about what you can do differently.
