Build a Stronger Relationship With Yourself. Change How You Show Up in Love.

You may know what you want in a partner. But do you understand what happens within you when you feel drawn to someone, fear rejection, or need to speak up about what matters?

Lobby Singles is a coaching community within The David Burrus Academy that helps you strengthen your relationship with yourself — and use that growth to make healthier relationship choices. Through weekly trainings, live coaching, practical frameworks, and intentional strategies, you’ll learn to understand your patterns, honor your needs, and move forward with greater clarity.

Understand Yourself Beyond Your Relationship Status

Being single describes your relationship status. It doesn’t define your identity, worth, or purpose.

Our work helps you examine the beliefs and experiences that shape how you see yourself and connect with others. You’ll learn to recognize where you abandon your needs for acceptance, confuse being wanted with being valued, or allow attraction to override what you know matters.

The goal is to build a life you value today while developing the skills to share it in a healthy relationship.

Turn Self-Discovery Into More Healthy Decisions

Awareness becomes useful when it changes how you respond. In Lobby Singles, we help you:

• Recognize your patterns: Identify recurring choices and reactions that keep producing familiar disappointments.

• Strengthen self-trust: Take your observations, needs, and values seriously — and act on them.

• Build emotional capacity: Name what you feel, communicate honestly, and respond thoughtfully when emotions run high.

• Clarify your standards and boundaries: Understand what matters to you and how you’ll honor it.

• Date with discernment: Assess consistency, compatibility, and emotional availability as connection develops.

• Practice healthier connection: Express interest, ask meaningful questions, and open your heart at an intentional pace.

Weekly Training. Live Coaching. Real-Life Practice.

Weekly Trainings
Each Monday, a new training is uploaded to your member portal, giving you a focused lesson to reflect on and apply throughout the week.

Live Coaching and Labs
Join Lobby Singles on Thursdays at 5 PM PT | 7 PM CT | 8 PM ET to work through the lesson, ask questions, and examine how it connects to your real experiences.

Practical Frameworks and Strategies
Learn clear approaches to navigating attraction, assessing alignment, communicating needs, and establishing boundaries — so you have a next step when familiar challenges arise.

Community and Accountability
Grow alongside other singles committed to doing the work. Honest conversation, encouragement, and accountability help you follow through on the changes you want to make.

Become More Grounded in Who You Are

As you put the work into practice, you can become clearer about what you need, more confident expressing it, and more consistent honoring it. You’ll learn to approach connection with curiosity and discernment while continuing to build a meaningful life of your own.

Your next chapter begins with how you relate to yourself today.